Do guys change after Marriage (Love) ?

The answer is a simple No!

We don't change, our love doesn't diminish with the age, we didn't break any promise ...

Though, I do not have a personal experience to narrate or share but I have inferred learnings from other relationships around me and more importantly have been able to feel it from the simulated situations like these (Plz! Don't ask me how)

I've have seen and listened to numerous examples from various sources in which the beloved girl urf Wife claims that the lover boy a.k.a Husband has changed phenomenally after marriage.

My Insight for all the Wives:

The truth is that we (guys) made you feel our love during the Lovie-Dovie times when we could think about only you, all Day & Night. Please understand that we could do it because we had the freedom to do it without any string attached. You would always quote the instances from school/ college days about all those mysterious yet special gestures we would do to make you feel a Special One, to keep you smiling and loving us more with every passing second. In fact, everyday spent pre-wedding has left a hypnotic spell on our minds and we never shy away from acknowledging it.

It is evident that one has to marry. Apparently, you seemed the apt choice and we felt that with you life's journey would be a smooth ride. Further, it's generally believed that if your partner is strong and can keep you motivated then Zor ka Jhatka Dheere se hi lagta hai.

Finally, after all the hard work and final verdict from series of proceedings in our Family Courtrooms, we got married.
Ah, it was an achievement of the Dream, wished together. An effort worth cherishing Life time :)

As planned and envisaged, after marriage, we started realizing other dreams of growing professionally with your much needed Support. As we got involved in other areas of life (reads: Work Targets, Social Pressures, Family issues, aging health), it lead to certain changes in our Time slicing with subtle effects on the freedom of our heart and mind.

Now, we may have lost those special ways of showing our Love to you, may don't even speak those 3 heavenly words quite regularly but it doesn't mean that we do no feel strong about you anymore.

"I do, you do and we do" is now a understood statement.
"Mine, your's and our's" is the future of Life.

Dear Wives! Please understand our heartfelt love for you not through words or actions but feel it in our heart beats which is filled with Lub-dubs of your Love. Honestly, it aches when we try our best to give you your share of our time but still find you unsatisfied.

Always remember this line "Love me the most when I deserve it the least". Nothing more to say ...

Just Be with us and accept these transitions in Life!

Amore
Vaibhav
On behalf of Romantic Lovers turned (Un)Romantic Husbands